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Responding to a Request - Disagreeing (Cold)

Someone hears a request to open a window but disagrees because they feel it's already too cold or might get too drafty.

Dialogue

Listen and follow along with the conversation

1
Lisa (Female)
It's getting a bit stuffy in here. Do you mind if I open a window for a bit?
2
John (Male)
Actually, I was just thinking of closing the one that's already open. It's quite chilly today, and I'm feeling a bit cold.
3
Lisa (Female)
Oh, really? I hadn't noticed it was that cold. I'm feeling a bit warm myself.
4
John (Male)
Yeah, I think the draft from the hallway is making it colder in this corner. Plus, it's supposed to get even colder later.
5
Lisa (Female)
Hmm, I see your point. We definitely don't want to make things uncomfortable for anyone.
6
John (Male)
Right. Maybe we could try turning on the fan for a bit if you're feeling warm? That might help move the air around without bringing in the cold.
7
Lisa (Female)
That's a good alternative! Let's try that first then. Thanks, John.
8
John (Male)
No problem, Lisa. Just let me know if it's not enough.

Vocabulary

Essential words and phrases from the dialogue

stuffy

Stuffy means the air in a room feels heavy and not fresh, often making you want to open a window for better air.

chilly

Chilly describes weather or a room that is slightly cold, not freezing but cool enough to feel uncomfortable.

draft

A draft is a current of cold air moving through a room, often from an open door or window, which can make it feel colder.

uncomfortable

Uncomfortable means feeling not at ease, like being too hot, cold, or in an awkward situation; it's polite to avoid making others feel this way.

alternative

An alternative is another option or choice when the first idea doesn't work; it's useful for suggesting compromises in conversations.

Key Sentences

Important phrases to remember and practice

Do you mind if I open a window for a bit?

This is a polite way to ask for permission to do something. 'Do you mind if...' is a common structure for requests; 'for a bit' means for a short time. Use it when you want to be courteous in shared spaces.

Actually, I was just thinking of closing the one that's already open.

This sentence politely disagrees with a request by sharing your own thought. 'Actually' softens the disagreement, and 'just thinking of' shows your intention. It's useful for responding without being rude.

I see your point.

This means you understand and agree with someone's reason. It's a neutral way to acknowledge an opinion during a discussion, helping to keep the conversation smooth and respectful.

That's a good alternative!

This expresses agreement and approval of a suggested option. Use it when someone offers a compromise; it shows you're open to new ideas and positive in your response.

No problem. Just let me know if it's not enough.

This is a friendly way to respond to thanks or a request, offering further help. 'No problem' means it's easy to do, and 'let me know' invites more communication. It's common in casual English for building rapport.