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Discussing Missed/Incomplete Chores

One roommate confronts another about a chore that was missed, done poorly, or consistently neglected, leading to a potentially difficult conversation about accountability.

Dialogue

Listen and follow along with the conversation

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Sarah (Female)
Hey Michael, can we talk for a sec about the kitchen? I noticed the trash hasn't been taken out since your turn on Tuesday.
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Michael (Male)
Oh, right, the trash. My bad, I completely forgot about that. Things have been a bit hectic with work lately.
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Sarah (Female)
I get that, but it's really starting to pile up, and it's attracting fruit flies. Plus, it's not the first time this chore has been missed.
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Michael (Male)
Yeah, you're right. I'm really sorry about that. I need to be better about keeping track of the chore schedule. I'll take it out right now.
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Sarah (Female)
Thanks, Michael. I appreciate that. It's just important that we all pull our weight to keep the place tidy, you know?
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Michael (Male)
Absolutely. And I totally agree. Maybe we can set up a reminder system or something to help me stay on top of things?
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Sarah (Female)
That's a good idea. We could use a shared app or just set up some recurring alarms. We can discuss it more later, but for now, if you could just get that trash taken care of.
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Michael (Male)
Consider it done. And thanks for bringing it up. I know it's not easy to have these conversations.

Vocabulary

Essential words and phrases from the dialogue

chore

A small job or task, especially one that is done regularly at home, like cleaning or washing dishes. In this dialogue, it refers to household responsibilities shared among roommates.

trash

Garbage or waste that needs to be thrown away. In American English, it's commonly used for household rubbish, like in 'take out the trash'.

my bad

An informal slang expression meaning 'my mistake' or 'I apologize'. It's casual and often used among friends to admit a small error without being too formal.

hectic

Very busy and full of activity, often in a chaotic way. For example, 'Things have been hectic' means life or work is overwhelming and hard to manage.

pile up

To accumulate or build up over time, like dirt or items. In the dialogue, 'it's starting to pile up' describes the trash growing and becoming a problem.

pull our weight

An idiom meaning to do one's fair share of work in a group. It's useful for talking about shared responsibilities, like 'We all need to pull our weight in the house.'

stay on top of things

To keep control or manage tasks effectively so nothing gets forgotten. In the context, it means remembering and completing chores on time.

recurring

Happening repeatedly or on a regular schedule. For example, 'recurring alarms' are reminders that repeat daily or weekly, helpful for routines like chores.

Key Sentences

Important phrases to remember and practice

Hey Michael, can we talk for a sec about the kitchen?

This is a casual way to start a conversation politely. 'For a sec' means 'for a second' or briefly. It's useful for roommates to bring up issues without sounding too serious; use it when you need to discuss something quickly.

My bad, I completely forgot about that.

An informal admission of fault using 'my bad' for 'my mistake', and 'completely forgot' emphasizes the error. This sentence shows how to apologize casually; it's great for everyday situations like forgetting a task, helping to keep the tone light.

I get that, but it's really starting to pile up.

This acknowledges the other person's point ('I get that' means 'I understand') but adds a counter with 'but'. 'Pile up' means accumulating. It's useful for polite disagreements in conversations about responsibilities, showing empathy while stating the problem.

I'm really sorry about that. I need to be better about keeping track of the chore schedule.

A sincere apology followed by self-reflection. 'Keeping track' means monitoring. This pattern is helpful for showing accountability; use it when admitting a repeated mistake and committing to improvement in shared living situations.

It's just important that we all pull our weight to keep the place tidy.

Uses the idiom 'pull our weight' for fair contribution, with 'the place' referring to the home. The structure 'It's important that...' explains why something matters. This is practical for discussing group duties; say it to remind others of shared effort without blaming.

Maybe we can set up a reminder system or something to help me stay on top of things?

A suggestion using 'maybe' for a soft proposal, and 'or something' to keep it casual. 'Stay on top of things' means managing well. This is useful for problem-solving in dialogues; use it to offer solutions collaboratively after an issue is raised.

Consider it done.

A confident assurance meaning 'it's already handled' or 'I'll take care of it immediately'. It's idiomatic and reassuring. Use this short phrase when promising quick action, like fixing a chore, to end a conversation positively.

Thanks for bringing it up. I know it's not easy to have these conversations.

Expresses gratitude for raising the issue and empathy ('bringing it up' means mentioning it). This shows appreciation and understanding. It's valuable for de-escalating tense talks; use it to acknowledge the difficulty of confronting someone about responsibilities.