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Negotiating Chores with a Roommate

Initial Brainstorming Session

Roommates sit down to list all the household chores that need to be done and discuss their initial preferences or dislikes regarding specific tasks.

Dialogue

Listen and follow along with the conversation

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Sarah (Female)
Alright, so as promised, let's actually sit down and figure out these chores. I feel like we're always just winging it, and things are starting to pile up.
2
John (Male)
Totally agree, Sarah. It's time for a proper system. So, what's on the master list of tasks? Let's brainstorm everything that needs to be done regularly.
3
Sarah (Female)
Okay, obviously there's dishes. And taking out the trash. Recycling too. Then, vacuuming/mopping the living areas, cleaning the bathroom – like, toilet, shower, sink. Oh, and kitchen counters, stove cleaning.
4
John (Male)
Good start. What about groceries? And general tidying up? Like, making sure common areas aren't cluttered with our personal stuff. Maybe even watering plants if we get some.
5
Sarah (Female)
Oh yeah, groceries are a big one. And tidying is crucial. What are your absolute 'no-go' chores, or ones you just really dislike?
6
John (Male)
Hmm, for me, cleaning the toilet is probably my least favorite. I'll do it if I have to, but I'd rather avoid it. On the flip side, I don't mind taking out the trash or dealing with recycling at all.
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Sarah (Female)
Funny, the toilet doesn't bother me as much as doing the dishes after a big meal. I find vacuuming pretty relaxing, actually. And I can definitely handle the grocery runs.
8
John (Male)
Okay, that's already a good starting point. So, toilet for you, dishes for me, where possible. This is actually easier than I thought. We're already seeing some natural divisions.

Vocabulary

Essential words and phrases from the dialogue

chores

Household tasks like cleaning or cooking that need to be done regularly. In this dialogue, it refers to shared responsibilities in a home.

winging it

Doing something without a plan, just improvising. Sarah uses it to describe their disorganized approach to chores.

pile up

When tasks or items accumulate and become overwhelming. Here, it means chores are building up and not getting done.

brainstorm

To generate ideas together in a group discussion. John suggests brainstorming the list of tasks.

tidying up

Light cleaning to make a space neat and organized. It's mentioned as keeping common areas free of clutter.

cluttered

Filled with too many things in a messy way. John talks about avoiding personal stuff making areas cluttered.

no-go

Something you absolutely refuse to do. Sarah asks about 'no-go' chores that roommates dislike.

on the flip side

On the other hand, contrasting a previous point. John uses it to mention chores he doesn't mind after stating one he dislikes.

Key Sentences

Important phrases to remember and practice

Alright, so as promised, let's actually sit down and figure out these chores.

This sentence starts a discussion politely and references a prior agreement. 'As promised' builds trust, and 'figure out' means to solve or plan. Useful for initiating collaborative talks like meetings or negotiations.

It's time for a proper system.

Expresses the need for organization. 'Proper system' implies a structured method. This is a common way to suggest change in shared situations, like work or home responsibilities.

Let's brainstorm everything that needs to be done regularly.

Invites group idea-sharing. 'Brainstorm' is a verb for creative listing, and 'regularly' means on a routine basis. Great for planning sessions to encourage participation.

What are your absolute 'no-go' chores, or ones you just really dislike?

Asks for preferences directly. 'Absolute no-go' emphasizes strong dislikes, using informal quotes for emphasis. 'Or ones you just really dislike' softens it. Useful in negotiations to understand boundaries.

On the flip side, I don't mind taking out the trash or dealing with recycling at all.

Contrasts opinions. 'On the flip side' means 'however,' and 'don't mind... at all' shows willingness. This pattern helps balance discussions by sharing positives after negatives.

This is actually easier than I thought. We're already seeing some natural divisions.

Expresses surprise at simplicity. 'Actually' adds emphasis, and 'natural divisions' means logical separations. Useful for positive feedback in problem-solving talks to build agreement.