Initial Observation & Internal Reflection
One person notices a change in the other's behavior (e.g., quietness, avoidance) and begins to wonder if something is wrong, leading to internal thought about what might have caused it.
Dialogue
Listen and follow along with the conversation
Vocabulary
Essential words and phrases from the dialogue
noticed
To notice something means to observe or become aware of it, often used when pointing out a change in someone's behavior gently.
quiet
Quiet here means not talking much or being unusually silent, which can indicate someone is upset or thinking deeply.
worried
Worried means feeling anxious or concerned about a possible problem, commonly used to express care for a friend.
upset
Upset means feeling unhappy or bothered, often because of something someone said or did; it's a polite way to check on emotions.
preoccupied
Preoccupied means being so focused on your own thoughts or problems that you ignore others; it's a common excuse for being distant.
offended
Offended means having your feelings hurt by something rude or insensitive; use it when apologizing for possible misunderstandings.
put two and two together
This idiom means to logically figure out or guess the reason for something by connecting clues; it's a natural way to explain assumptions.
Key Sentences
Important phrases to remember and practice
Hey John, I've noticed you've been a bit quiet lately. Is everything alright?
This sentence uses an 'I' statement ('I've noticed') to share an observation without blaming, and ends with a question to invite response; useful for starting a gentle conversation about concerns.
I was a bit worried.
This is a simple 'I' statement expressing emotion; it's useful for showing care without accusing, and the past tense 'was' softens it for reflection.
I was wondering if something I said or did might have upset you?
This uses 'I was wondering' for polite speculation and focuses on self-reflection with 'I' statements; great for resolving misunderstandings by taking responsibility.
Well, you just seemed a bit off since we talked about that movie.
This describes a change in behavior ('seemed a bit off') with specific details; it's helpful for explaining observations factually to clarify thoughts.
No, honestly, it's not you.
This reassuring phrase uses 'honestly' for sincerity and 'it's not you' to shift blame away; use it to quickly ease a friend's worry in conflicts.
Sorry if I gave you the wrong idea.
This is a conditional apology ('if') that's polite and non-committal; it's practical for acknowledging possible miscommunication without admitting full fault.