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Offering Help Proactively

Noticing someone struggling with a heavy item and offering your help, without being asked.

Dialogue

Listen and follow along with the conversation

1
John (Male)
Excuse me, I noticed you're struggling with that box. It looks pretty heavy.
2
Emily (Female)
Oh, hi. Yeah, it really is. I'm trying to get it up these stairs.
3
John (Male)
Would you like a hand with that? I can help you carry it up.
4
Emily (Female)
Are you sure? That would be a huge help, thank you so much!
5
John (Male)
Not at all. Which way are you going? Just point me in the right direction.
6
Emily (Female)
Just two flights up, to apartment 3B. We can take one side each.
7
John (Male)
Sounds good. Ready when you are.

Vocabulary

Essential words and phrases from the dialogue

struggling

Having a lot of difficulty doing something, like moving a heavy object. Use it to describe when someone is having trouble.

heavy

Something that weighs a lot and is hard to lift or carry. Common in everyday situations like moving boxes.

hand

In 'give a hand' or 'lend a hand', it means to offer help. It's a polite way to suggest assisting someone.

huge

Very big or great in size or importance. Use it to emphasize how much help something provides.

flights

Short for 'flights of stairs', meaning the sets of steps between floors in a building. Useful when giving directions.

ready

Prepared and willing to start an action. Often used in phrases like 'ready when you are' to show cooperation.

Key Sentences

Important phrases to remember and practice

Excuse me, I noticed you're struggling with that box. It looks pretty heavy.

This is a polite way to start a conversation and offer help by observing someone's difficulty. 'Excuse me' gets attention, and 'I noticed' shows awareness. Useful for proactive situations.

Would you like a hand with that? I can help you carry it up.

An offer of help using the idiom 'a hand' for assistance. The question form makes it polite and optional. Great for offering support without being pushy.

Are you sure? That would be a huge help, thank you so much!

This accepts help gratefully while confirming. 'Are you sure?' shows politeness, and 'huge help' emphasizes appreciation. Use it to respond positively to offers.

Not at all. Which way are you going? Just point me in the right direction.

'Not at all' means 'you're welcome' or 'no problem'. It then asks for directions simply. Helpful in teamwork scenarios to keep things moving smoothly.

Just two flights up, to apartment 3B. We can take one side each.

Gives clear directions and suggests sharing the load. 'Take one side each' is a practical way to divide work. Use for coordinating help in physical tasks.

Sounds good. Ready when you are.

Agrees and signals readiness to start. 'Sounds good' is casual agreement, and 'ready when you are' shows patience. Perfect for confirming plans before action.