Processing Past Experiences and Trauma
The session focuses on how past events, childhood experiences, or traumatic incidents may be influencing the client's current behaviors and emotional patterns.
Dialogue
Listen and follow along with the conversation
Vocabulary
Essential words and phrases from the dialogue
anxieties
Feelings of worry or fear, often about the future. Use it to describe emotional stress, like 'I have many anxieties about my job.'
contributing
Helping to cause or make something happen. In therapy, it means how past events add to current problems, like 'Stress is contributing to my headaches.'
childhood
The time of your life when you are a child. It's useful for talking about early experiences, as in 'My childhood was happy.'
overwhelmed
Feeling unable to handle something because it's too much. Common in work or emotions, like 'I feel overwhelmed by tasks.'
coping mechanism
A way people deal with stress or problems. In therapy, it refers to habits from the past, like 'Eating junk food is my coping mechanism.'
bottleneck
A point where progress is blocked, like a narrow part of a bottle. Used for problems causing delays, as in 'This issue is a bottleneck in our project.'
ingrained
Deeply fixed in your behavior or beliefs. It means something is hard to change, like 'His habits are ingrained from years of practice.'
resonate
To feel familiar or meaningful, like it connects with your own ideas. In conversations, say 'That idea resonates with me' to show agreement.
Key Sentences
Important phrases to remember and practice
I wondered if you've had any thoughts about how some of your past experiences might be contributing to them?
This is a polite way to ask for someone's opinion in a therapy session. It uses 'wondered if' for indirect questions, which softens the tone. Useful for professional talks to encourage reflection without pressure.
I felt… very alone, like I had to be strong for everyone.
This describes past emotions using 'felt' for personal feelings and 'like' to explain a comparison. It's practical for sharing experiences in conversations or journaling about trauma.
Can you tell me more about what 'being strong' meant to you then, and how that feeling manifests today?
A question to explore deeper meanings, using quotes for emphasis and 'manifests' for how something shows up. Great for interviews or therapy to build on what someone said.
It meant keeping my emotions to myself, not bothering them with my own problems.
This explains a past behavior with 'meant' for definition and gerunds like 'keeping' and 'bothering'. Useful for describing habits or reasons in personal stories.
It seems like that coping mechanism, which served you in childhood, might now be creating a bottleneck for you professionally and emotionally.
This uses 'it seems like' for gentle observations and a relative clause 'which served you' to add detail. Ideal for analyzing patterns in advice or feedback situations.
Our goal here isn't to erase the past, but to understand its influence and then develop new, healthier ways of responding.
A clear statement of purpose with contrast 'isn't... but' and infinitives like 'to understand' and 'to develop'. Helpful for setting expectations in goals or plans.
Does that resonate with you?
A simple yes/no question to check agreement. 'Resonate' means it connects emotionally. Use it in discussions to confirm if something makes sense to the listener.
So, where do we go from here?
This asks about next steps using 'where do we go' idiomatically for future direction. Common in meetings or therapy to move forward after discussion.