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Escalation: Repeated Disturbance

Escalada: Perturbación Repetida

After the initial request, the noise continues or resumes, forcing you to approach the neighbor again, this time perhaps expressing more concern or detailing the impact of the noise.

Después de la solicitud inicial, el ruido continúa o se reanuda, obligándote a acercarte al vecino de nuevo, esta vez quizás expresando más preocupación o detallando el impacto del ruido.

Dialogue

Listen and follow along with the conversation

1
Emily (Female)
Hi James, I hate to bother you again, but it seems the noise from your apartment, especially late at night, has started up again. We talked about this last week.
Hola James, siento molestarte de nuevo, pero parece que el ruido de tu apartamento, especialmente tarde en la noche, ha empezado otra vez. Hablamos de esto la semana pasada.
2
James (Male)
Oh, Emily, really? I'm so sorry. I thought I had everything under control. What exactly is it this time?
Oh, Emily, ¿en serio? Lo siento mucho. Pensé que lo tenía todo bajo control. ¿Qué es exactamente esta vez?
3
Emily (Female)
It's the loud music and sometimes what sounds like furniture being moved around, usually after midnight. It's really impacting my sleep and, honestly, my ability to focus at work the next day.
Es la música alta y a veces lo que suena como muebles siendo movidos, usualmente después de la medianoche. Realmente está impactando mi sueño y, honestamente, mi capacidad para concentrarme en el trabajo al día siguiente.
4
James (Male)
I really had no idea it was affecting you that much. I've been trying to keep things down. Is there a specific time it's worst?
Realmente no tenía idea de que te estaba afectando tanto. He estado tratando de mantener las cosas en bajo. ¿Hay un momento específico en que es peor?
5
Emily (Female)
Mostly between 1 AM and 3 AM. I understand things happen, but this has been happening quite frequently now, and it's becoming a real problem.
Principalmente entre la 1 a. m. y la 3 a. m. Entiendo que las cosas pasan, pero esto ha estado pasando bastante frecuentemente ahora, y se está convirtiendo en un problema real.
6
James (Male)
I'm genuinely sorry about that, Emily. My work schedule has been a bit erratic lately, and I might be a bit oblivious to the time. Let me put a reminder on my phone, and I'll make an extra effort to be mindful of sound levels, especially during those hours.
Lo siento mucho por eso, Emily. Mi horario de trabajo ha sido un poco irregular últimamente, y puede que haya estado un poco despistado con la hora. Déjame poner un recordatorio en mi teléfono, y haré un esfuerzo extra por estar atento a los niveles de sonido, especialmente durante esas horas.
7
Emily (Female)
I'd really appreciate that, James. Perhaps if you're expecting to be up late, maybe use headphones for music? And if you need to move things, doing it before midnight would be a huge help.
Realmente lo apreciaría, James. Quizás si esperas estar despierto hasta tarde, ¿usar auriculares para la música? Y si necesitas mover cosas, hacerlo antes de la medianoche sería una gran ayuda.
8
James (Male)
That's a very reasonable request. I'll absolutely do that. And please, if it happens again, don't hesitate to give me a call or text right away, so I can fix it immediately.
Eso es una solicitud muy razonable. Lo haré absolutamente. Y por favor, si sucede de nuevo, no dudes en llamarme o enviarme un mensaje de inmediato, para que pueda arreglarlo inmediatamente.
9
Emily (Female)
Thank you, James. I really hope we can resolve this, as it's important for both of us to have a peaceful living environment.
Gracias, James. Realmente espero que podamos resolver esto, ya que es importante para ambos tener un entorno de vida pacífico.
10
James (Male)
Absolutely. Thanks for bringing this to my attention again. I'll make sure there's no repeat this time.
Absolutamente. Gracias por volver a llamarme la atención sobre esto. Me aseguraré de que no se repita esta vez.

Vocabulary

Essential words and phrases from the dialogue

bother

To bother someone means to annoy or disturb them, often when you don't want to interrupt. In polite situations, say 'I hate to bother you' to apologize for asking something.

Molestar a alguien significa irritar o perturbar a esa persona, a menudo cuando no quieres interrumpir. En situaciones educadas, di 'Lamento molestarte' para disculparte por pedir algo.

noise

Noise refers to unwanted or loud sounds that can disturb others. In neighbor complaints, specify the type of noise, like music or furniture moving, to explain the problem clearly.

El ruido se refiere a sonidos no deseados o fuertes que pueden molestar a otros. En las quejas de vecinos, especifica el tipo de ruido, como música o movimiento de muebles, para explicar el problema claramente.

impacting

Impacting means affecting something negatively or positively. Use it to describe how a problem influences daily life, such as 'It's impacting my sleep' to show the seriousness.

Impactar significa afectar algo de manera negativa o positiva. Úsalo para describir cómo un problema influye en la vida diaria, como 'Está impactando mi sueño' para mostrar la seriedad.

oblivious

Oblivious means not noticing or aware of something around you. It's useful when explaining why someone might not realize they're causing a disturbance, like being oblivious to the time.

Despistado significa no notar o ser consciente de algo a tu alrededor. Es útil para explicar por qué alguien podría no darse cuenta de que está causando una perturbación, como estar despistado con respecto al tiempo.

mindful

Mindful means being careful and aware of your actions and their effects on others. In apologies, say 'be mindful of sound levels' to promise more attention to politeness.

Atento significa ser cuidadoso y consciente de tus acciones y sus efectos en los demás. En las disculpas, di 'ten en cuenta los niveles de sonido' para prometer más atención a la cortesía.

headphones

Headphones are devices you wear over your ears to listen to audio privately. Suggest using them in noisy situations to avoid disturbing neighbors.

Los auriculares son dispositivos que se colocan sobre los oídos para escuchar audio de forma privada. Se sugiere usarlos en situaciones ruidosas para evitar molestar a los vecinos.

hesitate

To hesitate means to pause or be reluctant to do something. In offers of help, say 'don't hesitate to call' to encourage direct communication without worry.

Dudar significa pausar o ser reacio a hacer algo. En ofertas de ayuda, di 'no dudes en llamar' para animar a la comunicación directa sin preocupaciones.

resolve

To resolve means to solve or settle a problem. Use it in discussions about fixing issues, like 'resolve this' to express hope for a positive outcome.

Resolver significa solucionar o liquidar un problema. Úsalo en discusiones sobre la corrección de problemas, como 'resolver esto' para expresar esperanza de un resultado positivo.

Key Sentences

Important phrases to remember and practice

I hate to bother you again, but it seems the noise from your apartment has started up again.

This sentence politely restarts a complaint by apologizing first and referencing a past talk. It's useful for follow-up conversations; the structure 'I hate to [do something], but...' softens requests and shows empathy.

Esta oración reinicia cortésmente una queja disculpándose primero y refiriéndose a una conversación pasada. Es útil para conversaciones de seguimiento; la estructura 'I hate to [do something], but...' suaviza las solicitudes y muestra empatía.

I'm so sorry. I thought I had everything under control.

This is a sincere apology showing surprise and responsibility. Use it when something goes wrong despite efforts; 'under control' means managed well, helping to de-escalate tense situations.

Esta es una disculpa sincera que muestra sorpresa y responsabilidad. Úsala cuando algo sale mal a pesar de los esfuerzos; 'under control' significa gestionado bien, ayudando a desescalar situaciones tensas.

It's really impacting my sleep and my ability to focus at work the next day.

This explains the personal effects of the problem to build understanding. It's practical for complaints; focus on 'impacting' to detail consequences, using 'and' to connect multiple issues clearly.

Esto explica los efectos personales del problema para construir comprensión. Es práctico para quejas; enfócate en 'impacting' para detallar las consecuencias, usando 'and' para conectar múltiples problemas claramente.

I understand things happen, but this has been happening quite frequently now.

This shows empathy while pointing out repetition. Useful for persistent issues; 'things happen' acknowledges accidents, and 'quite frequently' emphasizes pattern without accusing harshly.

Esto muestra empatía mientras señala la repetición. Útil para problemas persistentes; 'things happen' reconoce accidentes, y 'quite frequently' enfatiza el patrón sin acusar duramente.

Let me put a reminder on my phone, and I'll make an extra effort to be mindful of sound levels.

This offers a specific solution with future action. Great for resolutions; the structure 'Let me [do something], and I'll [promise]' builds trust by showing commitment to change.

Esto ofrece una solución específica con acción futura. Genial para resoluciones; la estructura 'Let me [do something], and I'll [promise]' construye confianza mostrando compromiso con el cambio.

Perhaps if you're expecting to be up late, maybe use headphones for music?

This is a polite suggestion using 'perhaps' and 'maybe' to soften advice. Use in problem-solving; it proposes alternatives without demanding, ideal for neighborly negotiations.

Esta es una sugerencia educada que usa 'perhaps' y 'maybe' para suavizar el consejo. Úsala en la resolución de problemas; propone alternativas sin exigir, ideal para negociaciones entre vecinos.

That's a very reasonable request. I'll absolutely do that.

This agrees positively to a suggestion, using 'reasonable' to validate it. Helpful in agreements; 'absolutely' strengthens the promise, maintaining a cooperative tone.

Esto acepta positivamente una sugerencia, usando 'reasonable' para validarla. Útil en acuerdos; 'absolutely' fortalece la promesa, manteniendo un tono cooperativo.

I really hope we can resolve this, as it's important for both of us to have a peaceful living environment.

This ends on a positive, mutual note emphasizing shared benefits. Useful for closing talks; 'as' clause explains why, promoting harmony in community disputes.

Esto termina en una nota positiva y mutua, enfatizando beneficios compartidos. Útil para cerrar conversaciones; la cláusula 'as' explica por qué, promoviendo la armonía en disputas comunitarias.